What You Really Want Really Wants You: the Secret Language of Desire

What You Really Want Really Wants You: the Secret Language of Desire

We struggle so hard to ‘cause things to happen.’ But cause & effect is an relative perception, not an absolute law. Nothing is causing anything; everything is creating the conditions for something to emerge. When you let go of a pencil and it falls, you didn’t ‘cause’ that. You created the conditions that allowed the invisible pull of gravity to ‘manifest.’ When you water, weed, and feed a seed, you don’t ‘cause’ a plant to happen. The plant was already there; you just created the conditions for its emergence.

Similarly, our belief that we have to cause our desires to manifest is actually the very resistance to them emerging. Like that plant in the seed, our desires are the invisible pull of the Thing We Want, trying to be born. The desire isn’t a sign of what’s outside that we must get, but a sign of what’s inside trying to get out. Once we understand this, the key is to then know how to create the conditions for the fulfillment of our desires to emerge.

Radical Empowerment

Radical Empowerment

We’ve been trained to believe that the world we see, touch, taste, and feel is the ‘real world,’ and the only way to create lasting change is to manipulate the conditions we find ourselves in.

But trying to improve your life by manipulating appearances is like trying to make a better movie by messing with the movie screen its projecting on. Life is not happening ‘out there,’ it’s happening within you. And only within you can you ultimately change it.

This reverses your whole framework of living. You realize you’re not on your way to more abundance, you’re coming from it. You’re not on your way back home to God, you are the way Life is putting Itself on display. You are the greatest Wonder of the World. But in order to experience this Truth, you must tap into it, become congruent with it, and live as if it’s so. This leads to ultimate freedom and power.

The Inner Manifestion Machine

The Inner Manifestion Machine

When you make someone or something outside of you the source of your safety, security, or supply, the universe is set up to betray you – so you’ll find your real source within again. It’s a painful way to learn this lesson, but it’s also the path to true power and freedom.

The truth Is, whatever’s missing is what you’re not giving. So if you want more to come into your life, you must let more come out of you. The truth is, no matter what you lack in resources, you never lack in your ability to be resourceful – ‘full of source’ – again.’

And in this episode Derek walks you step-by-step through these universal principles of true prosperity, and gives you tools to apply them for real-world results in your life TODAY!

Your Habits Determine Your Destiny

Your Habits Determine Your Destiny

Most of us are under a hypnotic spell that says we have to be realistic – after all, we’re limited by our circumstances, stuck with the cards fate has dealt us, and must suffer the effects of our karma, astrology, numerology, and every other ‘ology.’ But none of these have any power over you — no, not even Mercury in Retrograde can determine your experience!

The true pattern of your life is already fulfilled, a perfect idea of infinite beauty, abundance, and sheer brilliance. There’s no power or law outside of you that can diminish or destroy it, but there’s also no power or law that’s going to make it happen. You, and you alone, are the source of everything that comes into your life – and your habitual state of consciousness determines how much or how little of that infinite good you experience.

You might argue that you were born into hard circumstances. Or that by the time you realized you had any control, many major things in your life had already been set – and all you can do is make the best of what you’ve got. While it’s always a good idea to make the most of what life gives you, your potential is never circumscribed by your conditions. Your karma or any predisposition only determines your starting point. It is your character that determines what’s possible. And you can always develop your character.

To be more specific, character, not conditions, determines destiny. Habit determines Character. Action determines habit. Belief determines action. And consistent thought determines belief. In other words, no matter what circumstance you’re in, you still have all the power – because it’s always an inside job. But to regain control over this mechanism of consciousness, you must have more expanded awareness. In fact, without it, you don’t even have free will, you have ‘free won’t.’ Your life is a reaction to unconscious patterns, an habitual reaction of resistance to what you don’t want, more than what you do.

To reclaim your power and begin making real choices — so you can develop a character more in line with the true story of your soul rather than the human drama – you must begin living a life more aligned with what want versus what you don’t; who you want to be versus who you don’t want to be. The first, most important step, in doing this is defining a vision for your life that represents your highest ideals and aspirations. A vision based on your deepest heart’s desire, not parental fantasy, peer pressure, keeping up with the jones or mere survival. Then you must engineer a way of life that is congruent with this..

There are many ways to do this, many places you could start. You could focus on thinking more affirmative thoughts, feeling more inspiring feelings, and creating an environment that reflects the life you are creating. There are all-important, and part of the Emergence process. But one way in particular can begin to accelerate and enhance all of these areas – creating more congruent habits.

Forming habits is something you have naturally done, but for many their habit-forming has been a mostly unconscious activity based on coping. We formed the habit of watching TV or eating too much as a way to avoid feeling our feelings. We formed the habit of complaining as a way of venting the stress. We formed the habit of judging others as a way of covering up our feelings of inadequacy. Or we even formed a seemingly good habit of working hard, but often as a way of avoiding our feelings, intimacy with others, or from a fear of failure.

But now we’re embracing that habit-forming mechanism consciously and creating habits that are congruent with our highest vision – not from fear or desperation, but desire and inspiration. These kinds of habits tend to have much less negative byproducts. The other advantage is that creating habits tends to have a positive impact on all the other areas we might otherwise be focusing on – thoughts, feelings, environment.

For example, if you develop the habit of exercising, regardless of your thoughts, beliefs, feelings, or environment, you will begin to organically start thinking more improved thoughts, having better feelings, craving healthier foods, being drawn to more empowering environments and relationships – and eventually having a shift in your self-concept. And all of this without doing some rigorous affirmation routine! This isn’t to say you can’t or shouldn’t do the deeper inner work – adding these inner elements can definitely support you – it’s simply to illustrate the leverage that new habits can have on your transformation.

You may already know some of the new habits you want to form. But to ensure that they’re congruent with your highest vision, it’s helpful to take some time and imagine having achieved everything you want. Then explore that world and who you are in it, and identify how you feel, what you’re doing, and how you’re acting and interacting with the people, situations, and environments. Are you healthier, more generous, more playful, more productive in some area? What new habit would this version of yourself have that allows you to live this greater life?

As you identify a handful of these new habits, create a plan, a daily regimen that allows you to practice these. Don’t overdo it. Create a practice that stretches you but doesn’t pull a muscle! And be consistent. No matter what. That’s the key to making it a habit. The key isn’t so much that you believe it, but that you do it, over and over.

In the early days of my writing, I didn’t want to write, I just wanted to have written. But as I sat there, day after day, staring at a blank screen and typing whatever came through, eventually a flow started – and pretty soon I was writing! Same with exercise and meditation. Didn’t want to do either. Just wanted to have done them. But as I practiced, as I just showed up, regardless of how I felt about it, my body and mind got so used to it that to not do it was harder than to do it. And as a result, many other things in my life changed – thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and self-concepts.

Be gentle. Be kind. Be patient. And when you stumble – because you will – pick yourself back up and begin again. Over and over, until you achieve the desired new habit. Little by little, or sometimes dramatically, you’ll create a new set point. And as your habits begin to more and more reflect the character you would have in your ideal story, your life will reflect it too – and pretty soon you’ll realize you’re no longer a prop in this divine production, you’re the star of your show!

To Your Emergence!

From Problem-Solver to Vision Holder

From Problem-Solver to Vision Holder

Within the frequency of your problem, the solution doesn’t exist. Within the frequency of your vision, the problem doesn’t exist. So as long as you are focused on your problem, you are stuck with it. But if you’ll have the courage to seek the truth of your being – even when the bill collector is knocking at your door – you will open up a power and potential previously untapped (and maybe even unimagined).

 Ice won’t melt until you rise above 32 degrees Fahrenheit (no matter what you do). That’s where ice lives. Likewise, your problems won’t go away until you rise above the level that they exist on. You must stop adapting or wrestling with circumstances and expand in the face of all contraction. This includes surrounding yourself with the people, places, things, activities, and thoughts that represent your future, not your past.
In this week’s episode you’ll learn how to make this leap and take your life to a whole new level.
The Urgency of Emergence or an “Emergency”:  Which Will You Choose?

The Urgency of Emergence or an “Emergency”: Which Will You Choose?

Most people don’t have ‘Free Will,’ they have ‘Free Won’t.’ Free Will is a product of expanded awareness; until you see the patterns running you, you aren’t choosing, you’re just reacting. When you’re reacting to these unconscious blocks, you’re unable to respond to your deepest calling. And life is calling, whether you hear the ringing or not. The question is, will you answer it or let it go to voicemail – where it will get the message ‘mailbox full!’

In today’s training you’ll discover what the Urgency of Emergence is and why you must deal with it before it becomes an emergency. Because the fact is, life is progressive; there is an evolutionary impulse sweeping the planet, and your only choice is whether you will go willingly with it…or be dragged kicking and screaming!


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